The Words we use when discussing autism
This podcast was from "all autism talk," where Russell Lehmann, poet, and motivational speaker, was interviewed about his perspective on how we use words to discuss autism. I found this podcast very insightful and relevant. Mr. Lehmann was diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder at twelve years old. It was said that he did exhibit behaviors of autism spectrum disorder at a young age, but it was not until he had an emotional breakdown that he was diagnosed. I know there are probably more stories like his with the current issues around assessing children.
I appreciate when he says that words matter and they can hurt. I noticed early on that people's words and reactions impacted my son. Russell says words could hurt worse than physical aggression for people diagnosed with an autism spectrum disorder. I have always felt the statement that sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me is no longer appropriate for most of us. He confirmed my thoughts with his reflection on how words impacted him. I know it is the same for my son and most family members.
His discussion about perseverance and the need to work through things with all the trials and tribulations was also great insight. There are times when many of us parents try to prevent too many situations that may bring hardship or stress to our children. He reminded me that our children need to work through things and learn how to navigate this world.
I hope you enjoy this podcast as much as I did.
I appreciate when he says that words matter and they can hurt. I noticed early on that people's words and reactions impacted my son. Russell says words could hurt worse than physical aggression for people diagnosed with an autism spectrum disorder. I have always felt the statement that sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me is no longer appropriate for most of us. He confirmed my thoughts with his reflection on how words impacted him. I know it is the same for my son and most family members.
His discussion about perseverance and the need to work through things with all the trials and tribulations was also great insight. There are times when many of us parents try to prevent too many situations that may bring hardship or stress to our children. He reminded me that our children need to work through things and learn how to navigate this world.
I hope you enjoy this podcast as much as I did.
